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Monday, Nov. 29, 2010

COLLEGE STUDENT BACK IN THE NEST FOR HOLIDAYS? FAMILY STUDIES EXPERTS OFFER 1xbet sports betting COPING TIPS

MANHATTAN -- When a student leaves for 1xbet sports betting it's not unusual for new family routines to be established and family roles readjusted.

That's why many 1xbet sports betting struggle when their college students re-enter the family dynamic over the holidays, according to experts from Kansas State University. The student's return can cause disruptions in day-to-day interactions, and cause conflict between parent and student.

&1xbet sports betting ;Tensions are higher, so it's not uncommon for families to have increased arguments during a college student's visit home,&1xbet sports betting ; said Kelly Welch, assistant professor of family studies and human services at K-State.

It's very important for students and their families to have realistic expectations for one another and to cut each other some slack, Welch 1xbet sports betting .

&1xbet sports betting ;It's also important that expectations are clear and that there is communication,&1xbet sports betting ; said Tim Rarick, K-State instructor of family studies and human services. &1xbet sports betting ;It will help the visit be more successful and alleviate a lot of problems. Parents need to respect that their college student is becoming independent and has taken on new attitudes and behaviors. It might be hard for some parents to do.&1xbet sports betting ;

To help with the adjustment, both students and 1xbet sports betting need to communicate in a fun and relaxed way, Welch said.

&1xbet sports betting ;The key is to talk about nonserious issues,&1xbet sports betting ; she said. &1xbet sports betting ;This shows parents that their college student is an emerging adult who handles and accepts responsibilities. It shows students that their parents are at least trying to cut the 300-mile-long Teflon umbilical cord.&1xbet sports betting ;

Rarick said that students tend to feel entitled to their parents' home. He said students need to be understanding and show respect. &1xbet sports betting ;Encourage your student to be a considerate guest. He or she should be able to relax at home but keep in mind that they are not staying at a hotel with a maid,&1xbet sports betting ; he said.

Here are some tips from Rarick and Welch on how 1xbet sports betting can cope with their college students over the holidays:

* Have realistic expectations. If expectations are clear ahead of time then conflict is less likely.

* Be respectful. Keep the criticisms to yourself because they won't change the situation and will cause conflict.

* Use humor. A little laugh goes a long way.

* Talk often. A hectic, chaotic lifestyle supports hectic, chaotic relationships. Slow down and talk to each other.

* Listen actively. This means listening beyond the words by listening to the emotions behind the words.