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Source: Pat 1xbet best casino website , 785-532-2210, patpesci@k-state.edu
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News release prepared by: Nellie Ryan, 785-532-6415, media@k-state.edu
Monday, Nov. 9, 2009
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K-STATE'S 'MR. MANNERS' OFFERS THANKSGIVING ETIQUETTE TIPS FOR KIDS AND ADVICE FOR PARENTS
MANHATTAN -- Sitting down to a big Thanksgiving dinner can be quite intimidating for a child who might be questioning which fork to pick up first or which direction to pass the rolls.
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A practice dinner would be ideal, Pesci said, but 1xbet best casino website may be unrealistic as today's families are so busy. However, just talking about the event with your kids can be helpful -- just don't do so too far in advance or younger children might not understand or might forget what you told them, he said.
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* No hats at the dinner table;
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* No talking or texting on your cell phone at the dinner table.
When the meal is over, kids should offer to help cleanup, whether 1xbet best casino website is picking up the napkins and silverware from the dinner table or taking out the trash. The adults who prepared the meal will be very appreciative of this, Pesci said.
