Source: Charles 1xbet sports betting , 785-532-1946, casmith@k-state.edu
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News release prepared by: Greg Tammen, 785-532-2535, gtammen@k-state.edu

Friday, May 6, 2011

A POWERFUL CONNECTION: 1xbet sports betting -CHILD BOND PLAYS ROLE IN CHILD'S GROWTH, DEVELOPMENT

MANHATTAN -- It's little wonder that a child gravitates toward the 1xbet sports betting , says Chuck Smith, a Kansas State University child development expert. After all, mothers represent a child's bond to the world and the understanding of it.

&1xbet sports betting ;A mother has a different relationship with her kids than a father, and I think a lot of that is based on biological connection,&1xbet sports betting ; Smith said. &1xbet sports betting ;We don't fully understand the power of that connection.&1xbet sports betting ;

According to Smith, children recognize and experience that connection with their 1xbet sports betting through the feelings and the emotions they associate with her.

A good example illustrating this 1xbet sports betting -child connection is if a child scrapes a knee. Provided both parents are still together, in general the injured child is going to run to their 1xbet sports betting rather than their father for comfort and a Band-Aid, Smith said.

&1xbet sports betting ;Not to be sexist or dismiss a father's love and caring, but when looking at this situation through a child's point of view, mom's going to be the one to make you feel better because she's going to love and hold you and maybe even feel a little bit of that hurt with you,&1xbet sports betting ; he said.

1xbet sports betting parents' roles can be reversed, more often than not, children are going to view dad as a knight in shining armor who will keep them safe and chase away fears, 1xbet sports betting mom is the primary source for comfort and care.

As a child grows and matures, the 1xbet sports betting -- whether biological or a stepmother -- plays an important role in her child's development, character and attitudes, Smith said.

&1xbet sports betting ;She teaches her son how to be good to a woman by way of her relationship with the father. She's very important in teaching her son respect and about the importance of love and affection,&1xbet sports betting ; Smith said. &1xbet sports betting ;For young girls, she's very important in serving as a model for when her daughter grows up and one day becomes a woman like her.

Children are aware of emotions before they can talk about them, and because a 1xbet sports betting plays a significant part in her child's life, Smith said it's important for a 1xbet sports betting to talk about how she feels in words her child can understand.

&1xbet sports betting ;For example, if a mother is showing physical signs of sadness and she tells the child that 'nothing is wrong' when asked what's the matter, the child knows from looking at her face -- her smile and her eyes -- that's not true,&1xbet sports betting ; Smith said. &1xbet sports betting ;So knowing that the mother is sad, the child will try to connect the dots in ways that are untrue, and they'll blame themselves and try to figure out what they did to make mommy sad.&1xbet sports betting ;

While being a 1xbet sports betting is stressful, especially for the first time, by being a strong and loving authority figure in the early years of a child's life, Smith said it will help ensure a respectful relationship is in place as the child grows and that relationship changes.

&1xbet sports betting ;We have phrases like Mother Earth and Father Sky, and there's a reason for them to be a part of mythology,&1xbet sports betting ; Smith said. &1xbet sports betting ;The Earth is bountiful and provides for us. All of those wonderful thoughts about motherhood are associated with the Earth. That bond, that connection that children have with their mothers is something I don't think they ever lose.&1xbet sports betting ;