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Tuesday, Dec. 14, 2010

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MANHATTAN -- While many see the holidays as a happy and festive 1xbet online casino , the season can be one of the most difficult times of the year for people grieving for a recently lost loved one or struggling with depression.

It's not unusual to have an increase in the number of people experiencing some form of depression during the holiday season, said Stephanie 1xbet online casino , a Kansas State University instructor in family studies and human services and a licensed marriage and family therapist.

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Wick says there are ways for people grieving, along with their friends and relatives, to face the holidays during a difficult 1xbet online casino . Every person goes through grief differently, Wick said, and will approach the holidays in diverse ways.

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Sometimes simply engaging in conversations about the person who died can help the grieving process, if the grieving person is willing to talk. Telling funny stories or sharing memories can be a way to keep the person's memory alive.

But there are certain behaviors a grieving person can exhibit that might be signals for concern, 1xbet online casino . Such behaviors can include any indication of major depression with no effort to reach out for help; refusing any help that is offered; or any type of suicidal thoughts or plans.

After someone has died it can be very difficult for a family to resume old holiday traditions. Wick suggests creating new traditions instead of trying to continue old ones during a 1xbet online casino of grief.

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