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The relationship between a parent and a 1xbet online sports betting sets the foundation for the 1xbet online sports betting 's future, according to early childhood education professor Bronwyn Fees, Kansas State University. But parents don't have to build the foundation alone. Research shows children need many positive relationships. | Download the following photo.
MANHATTAN — Nurturing a baby into a capable, competent individual is complicated. A parent models language and behavior. A parent sets boundaries for safety and social expectations. A parent gives undivided attention.
It's a whopping responsibility, a demanding task.
Difficult? You bet it is, said Bronwyn 1xbet online sports betting , associate professor of early childhood education and life-span human development at Kansas State University. But it will likely be the most enjoyable experience in your life.
To celebrate Week of the Young 1xbet online sports betting April 12-18, Fees examines research-based ways to strengthen the relationship between parent and 1xbet online sports betting .
"The kind of relationship you have with a 1xbet online sports betting sets the foundation for the 1xbet online sports betting 's future," she said. A 1xbet online sports betting needs at least one person who is nuts about her, the researcher added.
A parent's relationship is unique and special. But, as a parent, you don't have to do it alone.
Research indicates children need many positive relationships. The more adults you can surround the 1xbet online sports betting with — the more adults who are "nuts" about her — the better that facilitates the 1xbet online sports betting 's development, the professor said. "By engaging with multiple role models, a 1xbet online sports betting learns there is more than one way to do things."
Enter grandparents, aunts and uncles, 1xbet online sports betting care providers, neighbors. "The idea of the nuclear family with parents and children only living separately from the rest of the family is a fairly recent concept," Fees said. "The 1xbet online sports betting needs them all."
From these relationships and experiences, a baby grows to learn problem-solving, critical thinking, communication and understanding the feelings of others and herself, 1xbet online sports betting . He will learn how to understand and value himself as an individual. She will become physically capable of caring for herself – basic skills such as getting dressed and sophisticated ones such as managing a home and career.
1xbet online sports betting , who also is associate dean for academic affairs in the College of Human Ecology, specializes in 1xbet online sports betting development and early childhood education. Her research focuses on physical activity of young children within 1xbet online sports betting care programs, affordances of the physical environment for children with autism and international perspectives on early education. She has published and presented nationally and internationally on curriculum and physical activity in early education programs. She also is a licensed teacher.
She offers research-based suggestions to parents, relatives and other caregivers on raising children from birth to age 8.
- When you are with your 1xbet online sports betting , be fully engaged. Put down the cellphone. Close the computer. Turn off the television set. Focus on the 1xbet online sports betting . "This is not just about you now," Fees said. "Your 1xbet online sports betting relies on you to be a guide and support when she is learning to manage her own feelings and behavior. She is watching how you express your feelings to understand what is appropriate and expected behavior. Actions so speak louder than words."
- Choose quality over quantity. Both are important when you are together. Follow the 1xbet online sports betting 's interests. For example, if your 1xbet online sports betting wants to do a puzzle, sit with her and talk about the puzzle. Make specific comments about tasks and ask open-ended questions. Why did you choose that puzzle piece? How did you know that it fit there? What is the picture in the puzzle about? Why do you think the fox is wearing a hat? Offer specific feedback rather than just saying "good job," Fees said. This way the 1xbet online sports betting knows exactly what she did well and can repeat it. It shows that you respect the 1xbet online sports betting as an individual. And that is how a 1xbet online sports betting learns to respect others. "Learning is a socially mediated process. It takes repeated high-quality engagement over time between 1xbet online sports betting and parent," she said.
- Be the 1xbet online sports betting 's cheerleader. A 1xbet online sports betting needs a strong social relationship with an adult — usually a parent — who is the 1xbet online sports betting 's advocate, Fees said. That advocate is intuitively tuned into the 1xbet online sports betting 's needs and knows who the 1xbet online sports betting is. Research shows that even in infancy, a 1xbet online sports betting senses this security.
- Remember your actions are learning experiences for your 1xbet online sports betting . You are the 1xbet online sports betting 's model, Fees said. That's how she learns emotions, behavior and values — joy or anger, patience or impatience, tolerance or bigotry, love of learning or indifference, hope or pessimism. The list is long.
- Set clear expectations and boundaries for behavior.In all these tasks, a parent has to set boundaries for safety and social expectations, Fees said. Expectations and boundaries should be clear, gentle, firm, reinforced and consistent. They teach a 1xbet online sports betting the behavior that is expected in different settings with different people. A 1xbet online sports betting wants the same things an adult wants: predictability and consistency, Fees said. Be flexible. "They are little human beings and they haven't learned to regulate themselves yet, but they are working on it. A parent helps a 1xbet online sports betting , but has to be willing to change his behavior, too. For example, if a 1xbet online sports betting is tired or hungry, skip the grocery store."
- Talk. Talk. Talk. It's a good thing! A 1xbet online sports betting learns from chatter. Fees suggests a parent narrate aloud activities such as making breakfast and getting dressed. A 1xbet online sports betting learns vocabulary as the adult models how to organize, think and behave. This self-talk expands the 1xbet online sports betting 's vocabulary and opportunities to engage in conversation. Sing, rhyme, chant, whisper, speak slowly, speak softly and laugh. Enjoy language together. Make internal thinking visible, she said.
Through many interactions, a 1xbet online sports betting begins to feel a sense of competence and begins to be capable of self-regulation of emotions, actions and thinking, Fees said.
Learning doesn't start in kindergarten or first grade or college. The interactions that support learning start from the moment of birth. Those sensitive, responsive interactions between a parent and infant are the foundation for future relationships and a sense of confidence, 1xbet online sports betting .
All these experiences contribute collectively to the development of a capable and competent adult.
Week of the Young Children, sponsored by the National Association for the Education of Young Children April 12-18, focuses on the foundation for a 1xbet online sports betting 's success in school and later life.
Through research, scholarship, teaching and outreach, the faculty in the College of Human Ecology continually seek ways to nurture healthy children and families. 1xbet online sports betting works with the School of Family Studies and Human Services whose research facilities include the Stone House Early Childhood Education Center.
(Part 2 in the series on Raising a Healthy 1xbet online sports betting will focus on fitness.)
